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My Rating : 9
Votes : 1
Profile updated at
28-September-2003
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About : I"m honest and lovely man with sens of humour
Looking for : Man who love ne true and make me happy
be serious and be friend with me...
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Rating of milen : 9, Votes : 1 
Profile comments :
Posted by keif at 17-Apr-2006 22:00.
Hi Milen!!!
I know you posted this in 1993 and that a lot has probably happened since then, but I just wanted to tell you that I enjoyed your picture and especially enjoyed your kind and sincere words that described who you were a good man who just wanted to meet someone with a sense of humor, but who could be serious and be a good friend as well.
Many of us long for that, Milen, and few find it.
I am 46 -- you must be 42 by now -- but I wanted to check and see if you are still into meeting people over the net or making new friends in other countries.
I've never posted to a personal ad before, and in your picutre, I can't even see your face. I'm not much into crusing and anonymous sex, but something about you struck my fancy.
I noticed you got no responses to your ad, and I couldn't understand why -- as what you said was certainly from the heart and you are a handsome man from what i can see.
You must understand that many gay people are wounded from their experiences growing up pretending to be something they are not -- and that often leaves them cold, sarcastic, shallow and sometimes just plain old mean...
I am none of those things...
In fact that's why I don't normally answer personal ads, -- and when I finally decided to I chose someone who lives in Bulgaria of all places!!!!
I'm 6 foot, 190 pounds, fit and trim and live in NOrth Carolina on the east coast of the United States in a city called Charlotte.
Many men have told me I'm a handsome man, but like so many gay people, I have a hard time beleiving it.
Again your pic and words intrigued me enough to write to you, though. I'd love to hear from you and see how you've changed since you posted your picture and words.
I hope things are going good for you in your country and that the economic level has improved.
Since you posted a rather sexual but tasteful pic -- don't you HATE IT WHEN ME BARE ALL FOR THE WORLD TO SEE? -- I must tell you than I'm a sexual person as well, though I don't spend much time going to gay bars or going to porn sites.
There are too many other interesting things in life to than look at men's dicks all day., though it's fun for a while.
I'm also interested in what gay life is like in Bulgaria. it must be very difficult and different. It's still difficult in the US as well, and we've come a long way.
I enjoy sex and can be quite kinky sometimes when the mood strikes me -- nothing nasty or extreme, just fun and playful. Im not into hurting people. I'm into being nice to people -- no matter who they are, unless they are total assholea!!!! hee hee.
I couldn't tell if you got any responses to your words and pics, but from what I can tell, you didn't.
I can't understand that. You seem sensitive, and have a nice looking a body and a nice looking face from what i can tell. Perhaps fate will allow us to meet someday.
I may be coming to Europe next year. If you respond to this, perhaps we could find a way to meet somewhere. Just a thought. There's nothing definate yet.
I'm not a cruiser gay person and I'm not into multiple partners.
In fact, I've been in a relationship with the same man for almost 20 yeasr now, but it is getting bored, stale and I don't know that I want to spend the rest of my life sitting and watching tv with him all night.
One of my favorite musicians is named Ryan Adams and he has a line in a song that says
"I think I'm falling out of love with you..."
It's sad, but that's kind of the way I'm feeling about my partner right now. He's done some things recently that have hurt me beyond repair and he know it.
BESDIES THE NIGHT IS STILL YOUNG AND SO ARE WE!
ANyway, I just want to drop you a line an say I enjoyed seeing your ad and wish we could keep in touch. i bet your English is a lot better now than it was. AS for me, I'ma HORRIBLE speller, as you can probably tell if you've gotten better at english. Usually when I write, I just use spellcheck.
I too, enjoy travel, music and good conversation. I like new experiences.
I've never been to Bulgaria, but I've been to a lot of other countries in Europe. I am a free lance writer, and go whereever I can find a story to tell and SELL IT! I long to move to Amseterdam. I love that city. I hope to retire there someday.
Mostly I write for smaller papers in the US, but I spent a stint in Poland in the late 80s after communisim fell apart -- thank GOD -- writing about it for wire services and things like that. I returned to the states, but would love to visit Eastern Europe again someday.
Again, I don't really know why I answered an 13 year old ad, except that you intrigued me and I am bored to tears with my life right now. I want something new and exciting to happen in my life before I become to old to enjoy it. (46 and 42 ARE NOT OLD! - though many people in the gay world dismiss anybody who is over 30. That's OK. Their day will come as well. Butts sag. Faces show lines. Pecs wrinkle. It's just too bad that you lived in the BAD TIME of Bulgaria in your youth.
The best time to be gay is when you're in your early 20s, when everybody is handsome and wide open. But older -- hell we're not old -- but older gay men can lead fun lives too, It's just different.
If you want, drop me a line and fill me in on what you've been up to. I've got good instincts in people and i have a good feeling about you. I feel that since Russia and Eastern Europe opened up in 1990, it created a whole new group of gay people who were suddenly free to be who they were really meant to be but didn't have the first idea of how to go about doing that. I hope your jounrey from closeted gay to open gay -- if you are out -- was an easy one.
If we never met, if you ever want to write or if you ever have any questions or anythign to say to me regarding anything, feel free to email me. I have not written a profile of myself on this site yet because the only reason I even signed up for it was because I came across your pic and was so moved by your few but very sincere words. It sounds as is you may have been hurt in your life by someone at some point. It's very hard to be GAY ANYWHERE in this world and not be hurt at some point.
Whatever the case, know you now have a new friend in America, and I will be happy to correspond with you anytime. I'd like to know about you as a person -- not just what you like sexually and travel wise. I sense there is more to you than just the few words you wrote in your profile and I'd like to know about it.
Best regards, good luck and I hope to hear from you. If I don't hear from you, I'll assume you've moved on and that life is good for you. I hope so. Goodbye Milen.
Keif.
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